The Tie & Bow Tie – Tutorial

June 29th, 2010

 

You never know when the next occasion will be calling for the formal sophistication of a tie or a bow tie. Whether it is a business meeting or a wedding reception, the knowledge of tying the proper knot is a skill that allows the satisfaction of not having to settle for clip-on props.

The Bow Tie

The appropriate width of the bow should never be wider than the widest part of the neck, while the height should never be over the tips of the shirt’s collar.

While standing in front of a mirror, the tie should be hang around the neck, over the chest, and the right end of the tie should hang at least two inches lower than the left end.

Next, the longer right end must cross over the left shorter end.

While carefully ensuring that the left, shorter end stays in position, the right, longer end should should be brought up in a loop from behind the right, longer end.

The right, longer end should be then doubled over itself to form the front base loop of the bow tie.

The left end of the tie should then be looped over the center of the loop formed by the right end.

While holding everything in place, the left end should be doubled onto itself and poked through the loop behind the bow tie.

Finally, the bow tie must be adjusted by the ends and the center of the knot centered.

The Tie

While standing in front of a mirror, start with he wide end of the neck tie on the right and extend it about 12 inches below the thinner end.

The wider end of the tie should be crossed over the narrow end, then must go through the loop between the collar and the tie. The wide end must be brought back down.

The wide end must be then pulled underneath the narrow end and to the right, back through the loop and to the right again so that the wide end is inside out.

The wide end must go across the front from right to left, then pulled up through the loop again.

At this point the wide end must brought down through the knot in front and — using both hands — the knot must be tightened carefully and drawn up to the collar.

The Wedding Cake

June 22nd, 2010

 

Choosing the perfect wedding cake can often be a complicated affair, where many factors come into play, and at the same time it’s one of the most enjoyable and rewarding steps towards the making of a perfect wedding reception.

Budget

Allocating the proper budget for the wedding cake can be tricky, for the many choices available, one would think the most expensive option is the best, however that is not the rule of thumb.

The wedding cake, although it plays the most important role in a successful reception, it is in fact simply filling and frosting and should be budgeted carefully with cost-efficiency in mind so that the total wedding allowance won’t be excessively dented.

  1. Frosted floral ornament are unnecessarily expensive and should be replaced by fresh fruit and real flowers.
  2. Using plain patterns and lessening the ornaments can be both cost-efficient and provide for a more unique and creative use of layers.
  3. Proper use of Faux tiers gives the cake height while at the same time requires less filling.
  4. Rent a fake cake and serve slices from separate cake pans in the back. This practice is becoming more and more popular and guests won’t know the difference!
  5. Opt for a small two-tier cake and then serve your guests from separate sheet cakes. Keep the sheets out of sight, and they’ll never know the difference!
  6. Choose a square cake instead of a round. They serve more guests, and are more pleasant aesthetically.

Theme / Color

A common mistake of many brides is that of picking a cake design and trying to match the rest of the wedding around it. This always turns into a disaster. Pick out a theme BEFORE shopping around for cake designs. The best bakeries are able to match colors and themes and incorporate them into the design of the cake.

Once a bakery has been chosen, bring everything you have to the table, from bridesmaids swatches to a picture of your wedding gown. Every single detail will help the baker create the perfect wedding cake design.

Find the Right Bakery

Locating the ideal bakery is a time-consuming task that requires patience. Don’t settle for anything that does not feel 100% right. Local bakeries online are often the safest bet, as they have their creations on display on their web sites. Word of mouth from friends and family can be just as efficient. Give every referral thoughtful consideration before making a decision.

Sampling

Sampling every element that will be incorporated in the cake is extremely important. Invest plenty of time in thoroughly sampling everything to get a feel of all the possible combinations. Taste everything that you consider important, even those fruit fillings that you think you’ll dislike. You may be surprised to find something in there that strikes your fancy.

Size

The size of the cake depends very much on the size of the guest list. If you are unsure about the number of guests, hold back on ordering the cake until you have an exact estimate. Bakeries usually charge per slice and although it is nice to let guests have seconds, it is not necessary, and for the bride on a budget, this can signify a difference of hundreds of dollars.

Flavor

Choosing the flavor can be as simple as taking the safe route with Chocolate and Vanilla, or as exciting as venturing into more sophisticated flavors such as Carrot, Red Velvet, Banana, Yellow or Chiffon.

With some of these flavors only some fillings and mousse will suffice, so make sure not to go too extreme. Exhausting cake sampling will help a great deal in finding the perfect combination of flavor and filling.

Filling

The filling is one of the most important parts of your wedding cake and there are plenty of choices to create the perfect combination.

Fillings come in two categories: mousse or fruit:

Mousse is popular for it’s creamy and silky consistency and it’s available in a broad array of choices.

Fruit fillings are also highly favorable especially during the warmer seasons. Amalgamated with Chiffon cake, custard or butter cream will have your guests spellbound.

Frosting

Many brides will be surprised to know that there are as many as six different frosting types, each with their own positive and negative contributing factors. Selecting the perfect frosting depends on numerous factors such as the setting, the season and the cake design.

Outdoor reception are not the best for butter cream and whipped cream, as these frostings tend to melt faster in warmer settings. This is only a good option if the cake is kept indoor for the majority of the party, only to be brought out for the cake-cutting ceremony and whisked back inside right after.

Marzipan is highly delectable, however due to the unknown nature of the ingredients, should be investigated thoroughly with the baker as it may contain nuts and other ingredients many people are known to be allergic to.

Fondant is the easiest and most popular frosting, and its elastic properties make it perfect to achieve the most complex designs. That said, its taste leaves often something to be desired, as it is comprised mainly of sugar and water. Some guests may find its slightly chewy sensation,  however there will be those who will find it bland and unpalatable.

The Topper

Give careful consideration to the choice of your wedding cake topper. Something too extreme will cheapen the look of the cake, while something too bland will not look worthy of being a keepsake.

Cake toppers come in literally thousands of different shapes and styles, some shops can even carve figurines in the shape of the actual bride and groom and even capture the facial expression and the design of the wedding dress. Of course this option will be more costly, but if the budget allows it, it should be considered over other blander options.

Preserving a wedding dress.

June 18th, 2010

 

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A wedding gown is the reflection of a lifetime investment in a reminder that the best day of your life is only the first of many. Shouldn’t your wedding gown last as long as your woes?

Here is a few tips to make sure to preserve your wedding gown for each new anniversary, or even to pass it on to a new generation.

After the wedding, the dress should be saved in the bag that came in or in a plastic bag and brought to a professional cleaner.

Selecting a cleaner doesn’t have to be a daunting task, often times friends and relatives can be helpful. The seamstress who took care of fitting the wedding dress is most of the time a precious ally.

Inform the cleaner of stains, marks such as lipstick, sparkling wine or dirt, in case of an outdoor wedding, and also any glued ornaments or loose stitches.

In order to properly store your wedding gown after the cleaning process, a preservation box can be purchased. Such boxes contain special acid-free tissue paper designed to wrap the wedding dress and protect it. Although boxes will protect the wedding dress from moisture, some boxes have a transparent “window” at the front, so special care should be taken in making sure the box is in a dry place away from sunlight.

At each anniversary the wedding gown should be inspected for discoloration and missed stains, and to allow it to “breathe”.

Wedding Receptions in Chinese Culture

June 17th, 2010

 

With 30% of the San Francisco population being of Asian descent, a large part of which is of Chinese origin, weddings inspired to traditional  ways carried over for centuries are likely to be rather popular with native as well as mixed brides and grooms.

To the average westerner, the traditional Chinese wedding reception is an event that will not fail to surprise and intrigue due to its many rules and rituals.

Gifts

Gifts and gifts certificates are best to be avoided. Cash or a check is the most common gift. Gold jewelry is also a popular gift from older relatives. Checks or cash are usually enclosed in a red envelope with the giver’s name on it and should be given when signing in at the restaurant. The amount of money given must be chosen carefully so as to avoid unlucky numbers, such as 4, and rather choose lucky numbers like 8 or 9.  White envelopes are to be avoided as the color white symbolizes death

Schedule

The Greeting is the time for the groom and the bride to greet the relatives and guests. Followed by the Entertainment time, which typically lasts for two hours before the banquet. During the Entertainment time, the restaurant will usually provide poker and mahjong for gambling, although gambling during such time is becoming less popular in receptions held in the US, replaced by more common cocktail parties.

Signing In

Two relatives from each family will sit at the sign-in table to register guests and receive red envelopes and other gifts. Usually they would have two separate lists, one for each family.

The best man and the maid of honor will direct the guests to their seats.

Banquet

A speech from the parents will open the banquet, to which speeches from the best man, the maid of honor and the guest speaker will follow.

After cutting the cake and the toasts, games designed by the DJ will involve the guests, as well as dances.

Two tables at the center of the room are reserved for the bride and the groom’s families.

Food

The reception is divided into 9 or ten courses. Shark fin, Abalone, Lobster, Jumbo Shrimp, Squab, Sea Bass or Sea cucumber are among the expensive and delicacies making up the banquet menu.

Fish heads, chicken heads and pig’s heads are usually left intact, as a whole fish, chicken or pig symbolizes completeness in Chinese Wedding Culture.

It is customary for the bride and the groom, at the end of the reception to approach each table and give a toast to the guests.

Guests are welcome to take the leftovers home as a sign of appreciation for the groom and bride’s choice of food.

About twenty minutes after the last dish is served, the bride and groom will line up at the exit to bid the guests farewell and thank them for coming.

It is considered impolite to leave before the last dish is served.

Summer Wedding Tips

June 8th, 2010

From May until the end of August is the most popular time of the year for weddings. Summer weddings offer possibilities to experience celebration in a way that would be otherwise difficult or impossible during any other season throughout the year. Summer weddings can be often easier on the budget than winter weddings.

Summer weddings open possibilities for outdoor settings like a garden, a park, the beach or a beautiful private yard. Long days are great for an afternoon wedding, when dreamy sunsets frame the moment while saying your vows… a priceless opportunity to capture the celebration on film. Fresh fruit and vegetables decorations, or simply fill a large vase with bright yellow lemons and oranges. Diffuse a warm glow in the evening with torches and strings of paper lanterns in the trees. For centerpieces use tablecloths in metal watering cans.

One good reason to get married during the months of June, July or August is that 70% of dresses that you’ll find are sleeveless or strapless, hence perfect for the season. Georgette, chiffon, linen, organdy, crepe and light-weight silk are the perfect materials to avoid adding too much bulk to the dress.

Beach weddings call for easy and elegant slip dresses. the bridal party will be more than comfortable barefoot on the sand, and the men can wear dress shirts over slacks or linen suits.

For a Garden/Backyard wedding, the bridesmaids could wear big straw hats, or even just the bride. Brightly colored cocktail dresses are a great idea. The choice for the men in the bridal party can be either classic navy blazers with khaki slacks or tuxedos.

Heat and humidity must be taken into consideration. Moisture will definitely affect the hair. Straight hair will get limper and flatter, while wavy hair will get wavier and frizzier. Investing in a professional long-lasting hairdo would be the best option. Brides don’t forget to tuck a flower or place a flower-crown in your hair as a nod to the beautiful summer season!

The menu for the reception should include a celebratory summery bounty of fresh fruit, like watermelon, berries, fresh vegetables and corn. Dessert should include ice-cream, and refreshing granitas and sorbets. Seafood goes almost without saying. Lobster and oysters are a must to render the reception classy and elegant. If the style calls for a more casual celebration, a backyard barbeque or a traditional pic-nic setting will be a favorite!

Lastly, to make it a truly unforgettable event, have simple but original gifts for your guests to take home, such as sand dollars, or little notes enclosed in a tiny box, wrap or envelope.

Your Perfect Day’s Blog

June 2nd, 2010

Thank you for visiting our official wedding blog!

At Bay Area Bridal we always love to hear back from our brides about their beautiful weddings and their experiences, from the planning through all the big and small preparations towards the most perfect day of their lives!

Along with our articles we encourage all our beautiful brides and brides-to-be, to email us their story and their wedding pictures to be posted on this blog!